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There’s nothing better than sending your boyfriend a text and knowing it made him smile, blush, or totally lose his train of thought.
Like, yes—I am your favorite distraction.
If you’re in your flirty girl era, or just wanna spice things up a little, this list is basically a cheat code! It’s giving cute, bold, teasing, and a lil dangerous (in the best way).
Whether he’s across the room or across the country, these 99 flirty texts will have him thinking about you nonstop. Let’s make your boyfriend blush!
1. Flirty Good Morning Texts To Start His Day
Alarms are annoying. You know what isn’t? Getting a message that makes him feel wanted before he’s even out of bed.
Start his day with something sweet, maybe a little cheeky, and remind him who’s on his mind before coffee even hits.
- Morning, hot stuff. Dream about me?
- Hope you’re ready to miss me all day.
- Woke up thinking about your face… and other things 😏
- You + coffee = my perfect morning
- Morning kiss? Too bad you’re not here.
- Bet I look better in your hoodie than you do.
- Just a reminder: you’re mine today.
- If I was next to you rn… let’s just say you’d be late.
- Your girl’s up—flirt with me please.
2. Sweet Compliments That’ll Make Him Blush
Everyone loves a good compliment, especially when it comes from someone they’re crazy about. Your boyfriend is no exception.
When you throw in a little flirt with your praise, he’ll be cheesing so hard and secretly loving every second of it.
- You’re literally the hottest guy I’ve ever seen.
- How do you still give me butterflies??
- Your voice? Obsessed.
- You make basic t-shirts look criminally good.
- You walk like you own the world and I support it.
- Can’t believe I scored you.
- You’re actually so good at [insert thing he does], it’s hot.
- Just thinking about your arms. For science.
- You = walking heart attack (in a good way).
3. Playful Teases He’ll Secretly Love
Teasing is an art, and you’ve probably mastered it by now. It keeps the vibe light, flirty, and full of that spark that makes your connection fun.
Toss in a little sass, a little sweetness, and watch how fast he texts back with a smirk you can practically hear.
- I like you more when you’re quiet. Unless we’re alone 😇
- You think you’re so smooth… and you are. Ugh.
- You’re annoying. Stay close forever.
- If I had a dollar for every time you made me blush, I’d still want your hoodie.
- You’re lucky you’re cute.
- Stop being so hot—it’s rude.
- You vs. everyone else? Not even a competition.
- I like messing with you. It’s fun being your favorite problem.
- Don’t get cocky, but you’re kind of everything.
4. Late Night Texts To Keep Him Thinking About You
Nighttime has a way of making everything feel extra dreamy and intimate. That’s when the flirty thoughts start showing up uninvited.
A well-timed message after dark can stick in his mind all night, especially when it’s soft with just a hint of heat.
- Kinda wish you were here doing absolutely nothing with me.
- Bed’s cold without you. Wanna fix that?
- Can’t sleep… guess who I’m thinking about.
- I’d rather be annoying you in person rn.
- Would totally fall asleep on your chest tonight.
- I need my nightly dose of you.
- Not to be dramatic but I might die if I don’t get cuddles soon.
- Your side of the bed misses you (so do I).
- You make night thoughts so much better.
5. Bold Texts For When You’re Feeling Extra Flirty
There are moments when playing it safe feels way too boring. Being bold is half the fun of texting someone you’re into.
Send something daring when you’re in that confident mood and wanna turn things up a notch.
- If I was there rn… we wouldn’t be watching the movie.
- What if I showed up at your door in 10 mins? Asking for science.
- I had a dream about you. It wasn’t PG.
- Wanna skip the small talk tonight?
- I dare you to think about me the way I’m thinking about you rn.
- Wear that shirt I like. You know the one.
- My lips are bored. Fix it.
- What would you do if I texted “I’m outside”?
- I miss you… especially when I’m bored and flirty.
6. Flirty Texts To Send Him At Work
He’s deep in work mode, but that doesn’t mean you can’t slide in with a little mischief. A tiny reminder of you can change his whole vibe.
Break up his day with a quick message that makes him laugh, blush, or both.
- Hope your coworkers don’t notice you blushing rn.
- Can’t wait to see you later… I have plans 😏
- Try to act normal today knowing I’m thinking about you nonstop.
- You’re doing amazing, hot stuff.
- Don’t work too hard. Save some energy for me.
- Sending kisses between meetings.
- You’re my fave kind of productivity break.
- You in work mode? So hot.
- I’m your 2PM distraction. Accept it.
7. Long Distance Flirty Messages To Feel Closer
When you’re far apart, staying connected through flirty texts can seriously keep things alive and glowing.
It doesn’t have to be dramatic—just real, a little bold, and full of love.
- Feels illegal to miss you this much.
- Can’t wait to kiss your stupid face.
- Texting you is cute but I want the real thing.
- Our next hug is gonna be dangerous.
- Time zones suck but you’re worth it.
- I want your hoodie and your kisses. In that order.
- Distance makes the flirting even hotter, tbh.
- Send me a selfie—I miss your face.
- Lowkey rehearsing what I’ll say when I see you again.
8. Cute Texts That’ll Make Him Smile Instantly
Flirting doesn’t have to be spicy to hit hard. Something sweet and simple can totally melt him on the spot.
Reach for soft vibes when you want to give him a warm little rush in the middle of his day.
- You make everything better. Even Mondays.
- I still get excited when I see your name pop up.
- Can I keep you forever?
- You have no idea how much I adore you.
- Every song reminds me of you lately.
- I hope you know how much I love being yours.
- You’re my favorite notification.
- Literally can’t stop smiling when I think about you.
- You’re my happy place.
9. Flirty Texts To Make Him Crave You
Creating a little tension can be delicious—especially when he’s already obsessed with you.
Drop something that lingers in his mind and makes him lowkey wish you were there already.
- I want you here. Like, right now.
- My skin misses your hands.
- Just thinking about last time… yeah.
- I get needy when I miss you. Consider this a warning.
- If I was in your arms, I’d never leave.
- Your kisses are addictive. I’m suffering.
- What would you do if I was next to you right now?
- My lips remember you. Every detail.
- There’s a you-shaped space in my bed.
10. Miss You Texts To Make Him Blush
Missing someone can feel heavy, but you can still make it sweet and flirty with the right words.
Add a little drama, a little affection, and just enough pouty energy to have him blushing and counting the minutes.
- Missing you is my full-time job lately.
- Can you feel how much I miss you or do I need to send proof?
- I need you like… now.
- Missing you feels like a slow ache. But make it romantic.
- I keep checking my phone hoping it’s you.
- When do I get to see your face again?
- It’s illegal how much I miss you rn.
- Ugh. Come back and kiss me already.
- Missing you. Again. Always.
11. Spicy Bonus: One-Liners To Turn Up The Heat
Quick, punchy, and bold as hell. One-liners are your go-to when you want to change the tone fast.
Send one out of nowhere and let him sit with that flustered feeling for a bit.
- Thinking about your hands…
- I wore that thing you like today.
- Save your energy for me tonight 😉
- My thoughts aren’t innocent and it’s your fault.
- If you were here, I wouldn’t be texting.
- I miss your mouth.
- You + me + no distractions = perfect plan.
- I’m not blushing… you are.
- Let’s make some trouble later.
Final thoughts
You already have the power to make him blush like crazy—now you’ve got 99 ways to prove it. Whether it’s silly, soft, or spicy, it all hits different when it’s coming from you.
Text away, babe. You’ve got this!
